Every couple knows that despite loving your significant other, you often have difficulties communicating; men are from Mars, women are from Venus, and all that. In this case, OP landed her dream job as a chef, which was a very exciting achievement for her. It had taken her a while to land the gig, and the opportunity was a major milestone in her career. Her boyfriend also got an amazing job offer that would provide him with a much bigger salary. Although the news was initially exhilarating, this job opportunity caused a rift in their relationship, as he expected OP to uproot her life and move with him to another location for this job. OP declined, saying that she would lose too much in regard to her own career.
After all, if they relocated, she would have to leave behind all the progress in her field. Her boyfriend told her that her job wasn't as important as his. Scroll down to read what happened next. For more, here is a Reddit thread filled with some serious red flags from Redditors in relationships.